Sunday, September 09, 2007

كلنا ليلى-2


هنا ليلى
Laila, do u feel satisfied with your life? having the expected respect and care in your community?

Thanks God .. but i admit i have problems referred to only being a female

What kinds of problems?
It's not a thing like molestation , it's immaterial things,it may be considered a minor thing compared to problems faced by other females..It's just that look from some males to females as persons in a second degree when asking for rights, even immaterial ones

Can you give examples?
Well..It's only a matter of classifying the importance with respect to sex.. the very old vision of the man who eats first and all his family follow .. but in a modern way
The male has rights to enjoy .. can exploit all his family in his service as long as he is working at home for example.. while it's a shame for a female to do that or she will be described as a male-oriented
The man can force his will on his family, and can't accept an opposite will easily
The female who dares to express a demand, a hope, a hobby is sometimes exposed to male's sarcasm
The female who reach a limit of success, is allowed if it dosen't exceed the male power, if it does, she is exposed to unfair war

Laila, don't you think that you are generalizing a limited personal issue?
No, it's a common complaint ,males can't accept easily a popular ,succeeded female in our society, they may tell the opposite , but always behave the same.
I think the attitude of mockery is a self defence they always do to reduce the effect of female succeed which can't be accepted easily..

Laila, what do you need to ask males to do?
I think .. little share ,care and respect to females needs will not cost them much.. they are things that show how far we practice our humanity in a better way

Do you really think that males may concern to listen to laila's complaints?
My expectations is positive.. but i think Laila should exert more effort to make her voice heard

Laila , Do you think your dreams may come true in your community someday?
Actually, we almost live in closed communities that tied our behaviours with customs and traditions ,there are many taboos that we must crash ,but I may dream, that my dreams come true.. someday